Thursday, April 3, 2008

April Fool! The Purpose of Pranks

Here is an article from the New York Times from two days ago, that I think a few people out there may find useful and reassuring today:

Mind
April Fool! The Purpose of Pranks
By BENEDICT CAREY
Published: April 1, 2008

Keep it above the belt, stop short of total humiliation and, if possible, mix in some irony, some drama, maybe even a bogus call from the person’s old flame or new boss. A good prank, of course, involves good stagecraft. But it also requires emotional intuition.

“You want to play on people’s weaknesses or dislikes, but not go too hard,” said Tommy Doran, a fireman and paramedic in Skokie, Ill., who as a rookie in Montgomery County, Md., was lured into the station’s kitchen and blasted with multiple cream pies. “For me it’s just the sort of dark humor we use to cope with the job and each other. Nothing dangerous or illegal.”

Psychologists have studied pranks for years, often in the context of harassment, bullying and all manner of malicious exclusion and prejudice.

Yet practical jokes are far more commonly an effort to bring a person into a group, anthropologists have found — an integral part of rituals around the world intended to temper success with humility. And recent research suggests that the experience of being duped can stir self-reflection in a way few other experiences can, functioning as a check on arrogance or obliviousness.

The 1960s activist and prankster Abbie Hoffman reportedly divided practical jokes into three categories. The bad ones involve vindictive skewering, or the sort of head-shaving, shivering-in-boxers fraternity hazing that the sociologist Erving Goffman described as “degradation ceremonies.” Neutral tricks are more akin to physical punch lines, like wrapping the toilet bowl in cellophane, depositing a massive pumpkin on top of the student union building, or pulling some electronic high jinks on a co-worker’s keyboard (though on deadline this falls quickly into the “bad” category).

What Hoffman called the good prank, which humorously satirizes human fears or failings, is found in a wide variety of initiation rites and coming-of-age rituals. The Daribi of New Guinea, for example, have children make a small box and bury it in the ground, telling them that after a while a treasure will appear inside but they must not peek, according to Edie Turner, a professor of anthropology at the University of Virginia.

Invariably the youngsters succumb to curiosity — only to find a sample of human feces.

The Ndembu of Zambia have an adult in a monstrous mask sneak and scare the wits out of boys camping outside the village as part of a coming-of-age ritual in which they are showing their bravery.

“These kind of tricks are very common,” Dr. Turner said, “and they are really a way to put a person down before raising them up. You’re being reminded of your failings even as you’re being honored.”

Jonathan Wynn, a cultural sociologist at Smith College, said pranks served to maintain social boundaries in groups as various as police departments and sororities. “And you gain status by being picked on in some ways,” he said. “It can be a kind of flattery, if you’re being brought in.”

In a paper published last year, three psychologists argued that the sensation of being duped — anger, self-blame, bitterness — was such a singular cocktail that it forced an uncomfortable kind of self-awareness. How much of a dupe am I? Where are my blind spots?

“As humans, we develop this notion of fairness as a part of our self-concept, and of course it’s extremely important in exchange relationships,” said Kathleen D. Vohs, a consumer psychologist at the Carlson School of Management at the University of Minnesota. Dr. Vohs and her co-authors, Roy F. Baumeister of Florida State University and Jason Chin of the University of British Columbia, propose that the fear of being had is a trait that varies from near-obliviousness in some people to hypervigilance in others.

The researchers had 55 men and women play a computerized cooperation game and demonstrated that participants who felt they had been burned would go over the experience in their heads, playing out alternative versions of how they might have behaved.

“Being duped holds up this mirror to people,” Dr. Vohs said, “and may in fact show them where they are on the scale” — too trusting or too vigilant. Paranoia, too, has its costs, and it can sour relationships.

Running back the tape mentally, in this case meditating on how an embarrassing event might have turned out otherwise, is known to psychologists as counterfactual thinking. “The feeling of ‘I should have known better’ is the sort of counterfactual that serves to highlight your own shortcomings,” said Neal Roese, a psychologist at the University of Illinois. “A good deal of research has shown that these counterfactual insights can kick-start new behaviors, new self-exploration and, ultimately, self-improvement.”

Those observations may not leap to mind if you just showed up in go-go boots and an Elizabeth Taylor wig to a bogus 1970s cross-dressing party. Or if you fell for the e-mail message announcing you had won an award and should forward a draft of your acceptance speech to a supervisor.

But a good prank is, in the end, a simulation of a crisis and not the real thing. And it serves as a valuable reminder that not every precious box contains precisely the treasure you might expect.

Update: Aaaaand here we have it! Honestly, I think Brent is being too apologetic...is it his fault his fans are fanatic to a fault?

19 comments:

DeWayne In San Diego said...

Very Good post Jim I will save this.
I have a post that will go up after Brent breaks his silence.

Mine will deal with the realty check that many have been served.

William Shatner is featured and a famous Saturday Night Live skit.

You and PC, I count you both among the most wise and seasoned bloggers around the Kocisphere.

So Jim, Would you ever consider that rumored trip to PA by all the bloggers and followers of the J&H trial?

Even if we let you wear a paper bag to preserve anonymity?

jim said...

"William Shatner is featured and a famous Saturday Night Live skit.":

YES I know the skit, and I see EXACTLY the point you are getting at!

You know, it's funny...a LOT of Trek fans were actually irate at Shatner for doing this SNL skit...they felt they were being "disrespected" as fans.

So yes, the parallels are uncanny.

"So Jim, Would you ever consider that rumored trip to PA by all the bloggers and followers of the J&H trial?

Even if we let you wear a paper bag to preserve anonymity?"

I think I would need a bullet-proof vest too. :-)

Geoff Harvard said...

It would be funny if all the bloggers and readers from the Kocisphere were gathered in a stinky meeting room at a Wilkes-Barre Marriott, and Sean Lockhart got up and told us to get a fucking life.

Not me, it's too juicy a story to leave alone. Where else do you get to talk about the demographics of the Hague Towers? Where else do you exchange off-the-books gossip on the phone at 4 a.m.? This is too good ever to let go. I could cancel cable tv and not miss it. Give me the Kocisphere and a twelve-pack.

Rob said...

Dewayne--

How are you at booking a group rate tour and getting us a good hotel business rate?

Holy cow do you realize if we all show up, they might have to have a drawing for trial admission tickets? That has happened in other cases elsewhere.

Jim--I don't think PC and I would be any safer with one party for certain and, well, I am not going to be a drinking bud of the other one either.

Who cares about any cable TV or DVD's? This is real life and one Hell of a lot more interesting. Besides you guys are definitely not a dull time.

Anonymous said...

Brent did get me on that April Fools Joke.
You know, for me it had nothing to do with Brent, it had to do with what was said- I am not a Brent fanatic.
It could have been anybody here, Rob, PC, Elm, Dewayne, Albert and you Jim [however if you said you were retiring from your porn career that would be a different story :))
-- again, anybody, my reaction would have been the same.
I once knew someone well, he rented the cottage in the back of a home I once had- Drama Queen to the max. always bitching and moaning- "antidepressants were not working, broke all the time, Dr's sucked etc." I stopped listening to him and he did kill himself this year.
Sometimes depression hits in different ways, I have it- managed.
But I have been in a near paralyzed state for several months before - I considered that a "crisis" when I heard "I am in a hopeless state - I feel I cannot get out of, well those were just a few key words that did spark my attention.

Rob said...

VJ--

That makes you a caring and concerned guy. Keep on being engaged in that way because it is that quality that makes you an original. Your remark from the April's Fool Day showed you were being more practical like the rest of us should of been. Thanks for reminding us of what is really important--another person's well-being.

Anonymous said...

A bit off topic - excuse me.
I have been wondering why I have been feeling out of sorts this past week.
It hit me - just now,
I am suffering,
yes suffering, from ABW- a very rare but curable sickness- it came over me overnite.
ABW - ACUTE BARCLAYWITHDRAWAL-
very rare in South Florida.
It must have been the way I was forced to "stop cold turkey" never a good way to quit a highly addictive drug.
To quit so fast, and the "stuff" on Bud Fox's site was very good shit! Highy potent, very pure.
Yes, the withdrawal has been brutal.
I do hope their comes an outlet for those of us suffering with ABW.

jim said...

An amusing side-note to all this...I got a text message from a friend in San Diego late Wed night (which I am just noticing now) that Brent was in an "amateur" gogo-boy contest at some San Diego club. He won easily.

Ah, the advantages of finally being 21! :-)

So, this is perhaps why the joke was stretched an extra a day, he was busy being a ringer in gogo-boy contests, LOL!

I post this as an Update as soon as I can voice-confirm this with my friend...

Rob said...

Hahaha. That's our Brent.

Anonymous said...

Rob,

Thank you. :)

DeWayne In San Diego said...

Jim FUCK FUCK FUCK pardon my French!
I got a text about that contest and thought hmm I wonder,,nah he would say something,,so I erased it without replying BANG BANG (Bangs head against wall) oh well Brent IS getting well known in the local club and bar scene since turning 21,,,;-)

VJ I feel your pain I MISS Buds site I want my Nancy Grace!!!

I also understand the real concern you and others had for Brents state of mind,,if I had not been over to the house Friday I may have been freaking out! Instead everything was going well (the filming) and Brent was VERY relaxed and in a good place. (Hey he was filming and as much as he bitches about it he loves working in front or behind the camera)

jim said...

Contest story confirmed: "He wow'ed the voting crowd, and won them over easily by performing his famous handstand on stage."

Brent has a "famous handstand?" Huh. Learn something new every day!

DeWayne In San Diego said...

Jim I think he does a great handstand looks impressive in pix of course how hard is a handstand for an athletic 5'7" guy,,I always had a problem with them at 6'3" I am all legs!

http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/ddhsd/Brent%20Corrigan%202/BrentCorriganMM150dpi5076.jpg

or

http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q40/ddhsd/Brent%20Corrigan%202/
BrentCorriganMM150dpi5076.jpg

Rob said...

Jim--

Poor Elm. We seem to have upset the seer of the besmogged crystal ball. You and I do not want Harlow and Joe to have a fair trial. News to me. I do want them to have a trial. Hell, I hope they testify. That would become a new textbook case study in why lawyers don't want their clients talking in their own defense in capital cases under oath. And something else---oh, we appear to be insinuating that Harlow and Joe did more than then they did and that Elm might have misrepresented certain facts. Yep, I am insinuating from the known facts that two grifting con boobs killed a man and keep trying to pin the job on two others so they could attempt to waltz off scott free.

Geoff Harvard said...

"I got a text message from a friend in San Diego late Wed night (which I am just noticing now) that Brent was in an "amateur" gogo-boy contest at some San Diego club. He won easily."

Do you have to be in a promoter's database to be informed by text message of go-go boy contests in San Diego? I bet this text is the same source Jason Kabala Sechrest used to state that he had it on "good authority" that Adieu was the most obvious AF joke ever. Sadly, no one who blogs about or around BC knows him well enough to just call him on his cell and ask him wot da dealeo about dat.

jim said...

Naw, nothing that formal is needed. :-)

DeWayne In San Diego said...

Well Geoff the "Boy in question" turned his cell OFF March 31st till the afternoon of April 1st!

So I SPAMMED his email box with ALL my many Emails,Texts and Cell Phone calls.

Geoff Harvard said...

Sorry, Dewayne, I think you may have told me that on the evening of the 2nd or the early morning of the 3rd. It all gets so mixed up. I still maintain that no one who blogs about or comments about the little minx has direct enough contact to just ask him if something is true.

jim said...

I'm sure Brent prefers it that way. :-)